Self-Care

We all lead busy, hectic, time-pressured lives these days. Many of our clients admit to feeling as though they are dropping the ball in their marriage, with their kids, with family, and at work. There simply don’t seem to be enough hours in the day to be everything to everyone who needs something from us.

This is especially true for those who identify caregiving as a primary function in their relationships. For these folks, it is critical to recognize and honor your personal limits, and know when to step back and exercise healthy self-care.

Recognizing the value of taking good care of yourself and learning how to set boundaries in your life are just a couple of the tasks of appropriate self-care. If the idea of taking good care of yourself seems foreign to you, a caring professional counselor can help you to become aware of—and honor—those needs.

Counseling Insights and Articles About Self-Care:

Self-Care: Six Tips to Recharge Your Mind and Body, by Brian Perry
The Importance of Third Spaces: Creating Balance Beyond Home and Work, by Liza Hinchey
The Life-Giving Quality of Curiosity, by Deb Toering
Our Bodies Knew, by Dave Papandrea
All My Friends Know Their Major; What’s Wrong with ME?, by Sherrie Darnell
The Mind-Body Connection Series: Harnessing a Movement Routine for Mental Well-Being, by Liza Hinchey
Getting to Know Your Inner Critic, by Liza Hinchey
You've Got to Know When to Hold'em—And When to Shut Them Down, by Dave Papandrea
The Mind… The Gut… The Psyche, by Dave Papandrea
Working to Live or Living to Work? What is the Difference and Why Does it Matter?, by Shelley Kruszewski
The Two Faces of Self-Compassion, by Liza Hinchey
6 Steps For Building Resilience And Preventing PTSD, by Dave Papandrea
Finding Christmas Joy, by Tonya Ratliff
Could A Mindfulness Practice Benefit YOU?, by Sherrie Darnell
Moms: Can Your Empty Nest Grow Full Again?, by Deb Toering
You Spot It, You Got It, by Sherrie Darnell
Is It Me? Maladaptive Coping Strategies in the Fire Service, by Dave Papandrea

The Mind-Body Connection Series: How to Get the Most of Your Sleep, by Liza Hinchey
Why Everyone Can Benefit From A Mindfulness Practice, by Liza Hinchey
Finding Encouragement In The Small Moments, by Wendy Warner
Your Brain Is Hardwired To Protect You, Not To Be Productive, by Liza Hinchey
Parenting, But It's Not What You Think I Mean, by Liza Hinchey
Is That Bully Still beating You Up?, by Deb Toering
An Empowering Approach To Internalized Beliefs, by Liza Hinchey
In The Season Of Giving, Let's Remember To Give To Ourselves, by Liza Hinchey
Mindfulness - Why It Works, by Liza Hinchey
Shame. The Silent Killer., by Deb Toering
How Do You Define YOU?, by Tonya Ratliff
Social Media Can Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health, by Deb Toering
What Are You Thinking About?, by Wendy Warner
The Need for a Little Quiet in Your Day, by Tonya Ratliff
Who Am I, Really?, by Deb Toering
Self-Care is Not Self-ish, by Tonya Ratliff

Why Everyone Can benefit From A Mindfulness Practice

11/21/2020

by Liza Hinchey, PhD, LPC

Liza Hinchey is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice at Trinity Family Counseling Center. Liza completed dual Master’s degrees in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, and holds a PhD in psychology at Wayne State University. She works with individuals, families, and groups across a range of presenting issues.

When my clients are looking to improve their overall happiness and well-being, one of the first things I suggest is starting a mindfulness practice. As one of the simplest and most broadly effective strategies there is, implementing mindfulness almost always leads to improvements. Of course, it’s not a magic solution to all of our problems, but research has shown that it can broadly improve our well-being.

Defined as a non-judgmental awareness of the present moment, mindfulness can help us regulate our emotions, cope with difficult experiences, improve our focus, communicate more effectively, and be more compassionate towards ourselves and others. Studies have also shown that when someone is thinking about something other than the current moment, they report feeling less happy than if they were focused on the present. This is true even if the thoughts they were thinking were pleasant or happy! [1]

If you’d like to try out this valuable practice for yourself, there are so many ways to make it work for you. Yoga and meditation, both “formal” mindfulness practices, are highly effective if you’re into them. But the best part about mindfulness is that it can be practiced by anyone, anywhere, anytime. All you need to do is, for a moment, bring your attention to the present.

What do you see, feel, hear, smell, and taste? What does your breath feel like as it enters and leaves your body? What is it like to exist, to be you in your body, right now.

Killingsworth MA, Gilbert DT. A wandering mind is an unhappy mind. Science. 2010 Nov 12;330(6006):932. doi: 10.1126/science.1192439. PMID: 21071660.

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