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ADD / ADHD

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Our fast-paced lives and love for technology tends to make us all a little distracted, and as many say, “I am so ADD”. But what is it, really, and what causes it?   Some mistakenly believe it is due to poor parenting skills, the social environment, or a lack of self-discipline. It is due to none of these, but rather stems from a neurological problem; a deficiency of two neurotransmitters in the brain.
 
Attention Deficit Disorder with Hyperactivity (ADHD) can look different than Attention Deficit Disorder (Inattentive ADD, without hyperactivity). Those struggling with inattention may have difficulty with organization, staying on task, making careless mistakes, forgetfulness, follow-through and procrastination. The hyperactivity can surface with fidgeting, excessive talking, interrupting others, speaking and acting impulsively, and an overall feeling of restlessness.
 
Left untreated, these conditions can result in underachievement, failed relationships, depression and low self-esteem. Often adults who are diagnosed later in life feel a tremendous amount of relief: they finally have an explanation for many of their life-long struggles.
 
If you are feeling overwhelmed and struggling in any of the areas mentioned above, or are witnessing these challenges in your child’s life, we are here to help you unravel the complex disorder of ADD/ADHD.
Counseling Insights and Articles About ADD / ADHD
Connecting the Dots After an ADHD Diagnosis, by Deb Toering
A Parent’s Desperate Cry for HELP! The ADHD Connection to Missing Homework Assignments, by Deb Toering
Why Can't You Ever Be On Time?, by Deb Toering
The Relief And Grief Of An ADHD Diagnosis, by Deb Toering
Tackling The Mundane With An ADD Brain, by Deb Toering
Help!  My Child With ADHD Needs Friends, by Deb Toering
Help!  My Child Has ADHD!!, by Deb Toering
The Havoc of ADHD in Marriage
, by Deb Toering
A Day With ADHD, by Deb Toering
ADHD Without the “H”, by Deb Toering
Help! My Spouse Has ADHD!!, by Deb Toering
I’ll Get to That Tomorrow…, by Deb Toering
“Just Try Harder”, by Deb Toering

I'll Get To That Tomorrow...

3/12/2016

 
by Deb Toering, LPC, NCC, BCPCC
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Deb Toering is a Board Certified Professional Christian Counselor (BCPCC) in private practice at Trinity Family Counseling Center. In addition to working with a wide range of client populations and presenting issues, Deb is also an engaging public speaker. She has spoken in front of various groups across a range of topics including marriage, bullying, ADHD/ADD, and teen leadership.

Putting off the difficult things is something we all do. For some, it is a regular cycle of defeat and shame, negatively affecting relationships, work, finances, physical and mental health. “Lazy” or “incompetent” are labels often attached to procrastinators. So why do some continue in such destructive behavior?

For many with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD/ADHD), procrastination is the go-to M.O. The brain is stimulated when it is interested, under the pressure of a deadline or facing the threat of a major consequence. The mundane things of life like paperwork or cleaning are the kinds of tasks the ADHD brain tends to want to “put off” to do something more stimulating. ADHD and procrastination tend to go hand in hand. It is important to understand the “why” but never use it as an excuse. Medication helps with motivation but isn’t a miraculous cure. Lifelong habits need an aggressive and intentional approach.

The key is: DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT.
  • SET A TIMER – Just 10 minutes allows you to begin tackling that boring pile of paperwork.
  • MOMENTUM – Doing the next thing propels you forward. Making that first call gives you the momentum to go on to the next.
  • ACCOUNTABILITY – Text an accountability partner when you are going to start a difficult project and then text when you are finished.
  • HAVE FUN – Challenge yourself by beating your last record for minutes taken to empty the dishwasher.
  • START SOMEWHERE! An ADD-DHD coach or counselor may be just what you need to succeed.

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